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True friends

Now is very popular among young people 's the word "bes". Short cut for the English term "best friend". So when you call "bes" to someone that is close to you, you will hope he/she will call you too.

But what and where you really are friends? In foolishness? During drinking sessions? During gossips? If you want to borrow money? Where and what really is?

Just look at those paragraphs below:

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him alone when he falls; not another to raise him. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat, but how you feel warm alone ?? And though a man might prevail against another, two will be victorious one. The lanyard cord of three is not immediately unbroken. "(Ecclesiastes 4: 9-12)

That's how important a friend. Difficult to travel in this life alone. You can not go against the storm, the shaking around, diversified own challenges while you are traveling. Long long also because the journey time, is not it? And if you are alone, then, what about when you need the help of another person? E no no heed to you!

I once asked a fellow teacher what is my secret that my students loves me a lot in high school. Meanwhile, students are the major source of headaches of teachers.

I said there is no secret. I loved them as true, I became friends with them truly . As I always tell them, "Oh, we understand each other, huh?. What 's got to see me, but that's it. I have no hidden agenda, I had no armed propaganda. When it comes to bullshit, I'm out there. Hear and you hear a rebuke from me when you do poorly. "

The result: a super-bonding. Still need to push for study, yes. But the important thing was nagpapatulak. And most importantly, when they have problems, when going through a difficult situation, you are there because they gave you the right to enter into their lives. They trust you, so they open themselves to you.

So I hope I have succeeded in reminding you about one of the most important things in life. True friends are priceless, except God himself. The property can evaporate, the dream could crumble. But if you are an honest friend next to you at that time, they will grow up and get to stand in the middle of the calamities of life.

"There are friends who pretend to be friends, but with more glue friend than a brother" (Proverbs 18:24).